
I went to class some weeks back. I already had in mind to write about gender due my dissatisfaction on a course I took earlier on. I have noticed gender inequality in the combat for gender equality in my generation. Two male colleagues made an interesting comment about poor male representation in certain fields of life and if I wanted proof of it, I should look at the number of men and women who were present for the class on that day. In a total of about 50 students, there were ten young men present in our midst in a law class. In my opinion, a portion of representation issues in fields of employment especially has got to do with interests of people and simply, inequity.
To the main issue
The Rome Statute stipulates in article 7(3) that the term “gender” refers to the two sexes, male and female, within the context of society. [The term “gender” does not indicate any meaning different from the above.] We automatically as part of identification, specify who a person is based on the sex. However, there is more to a person than his/her sex. I always say that, we are humans before our gender and everything else, and that is what should matter. As to this reason both sexes deserve equal treatment. It is amazing how women’s rights have been fought for, neglecting that of men. All women’s rights activism is on the basis of emotions and what women feel is wrong being done to them and therefore needs to change. It is absolutely reasonable and just to fight for your inalienable rights and human dignity. However, society fails to look at it from the perspective of men how much they are being supressed daily as well because, as a man it is part of your characteristics to be strong, to forbear everything unpleasant, to keep everything inside, not to complain nor cry even when it hurts most. There are men who will even disagree with what is being said now because their thoughts have been shaped to accept some of these displeasures and live with it.
If honesty will be applied, there are women who engage in the most heinous crimes. If we should look at gender based crimes like rape, sexual violence, sexual harassment, sexual slavery and forced prostitution, there are tons of women who commit these crimes against men and their fellow women. Most of such cases are left unprosecuted because a proportion of men do not report it due to shame and fear of being ridiculed and the rest is left with the question of ‘who will even believe me’? I firmly believe that as we are giving rise to the voice of women in the society, we should take a careful look at the rights of men especially that of freedom of expression to ensure that even on all levels, gender equality is being promoted rightly. It does not make a man less of a man to take the right action when his inherent rights are infringed.
Scriptures have it in Genesis 1:27 that God created humankind in his image, in the image of God he created them, male and female he created them. The word hu denotes gender neutralism moving away to the person inside the gender. It is wrong if a woman will be paid attention to on emotional matters, psychological matters and social matters whiles we believe the male gender does not need such equal attention because we think men are emotionally and mentally strong and rooted than women. The same blood runs through their veins and the same heart lies within their chest. As we promote gender equality, we should promote equality in treatment and equity in opportunities and representation. I will conclude with the remark that there have been several abuse and inferiorization of women for centuries now which we cannot turn a blind eye to, however we should quit being gender biased. No sex matters more than the other or is superior in any matters of life over the other. With the male and female gender, we are meant to rule this world peacefully together according to each other’s strengths. Advocacy is being done on the national, regional and international level to secure our rights. It should be done right and should begin from our various homes with how we raise our boys and girls and treat our men and women with love, kindness, fairness and transparency with the understanding that as humans, we deserve to be treated equally.


